From the Time Marches On department:
As of a couple of days ago, Denzel Washington is 68 years old. Sixty-eight. How did that happen?
(Video extremely NSFW obvi)
For years now we’ve been marking time by our kids’ progression thru school. Now our youngest is graduated and I’m a little adrift, time-wise. Like a late December sunset when it’s hard to tell exactly when the sun has gone down, this feels like one of those years when December just melts into January and if there weren’t fireworks and a champagne toast you’d never really know that anything had changed.
Sometimes I’m positive I know what Adam Duritz felt when he sang “grey is my favorite color“.
I’m in the long habit taking some time on New Year’s Eve to reflect back on the year gone by, and to anticipate the milestones (large or small or in-between) of the year to come. As the last few hours of 2022 spin away, there’s one big event on next year’s calendar but other than that I’m kind of drawing a blank on the highlights-to-be of 2023.
(The math nerd in me had to check if 2023 is prime. It is not a prime number, by the way. Divides by 7, 17, 119, and 289. Turns out 2027 is the next “prime number” year. Fun party fact, if you’re headed out tonight.)
So what’s coming up? My oldest is going to wrap up his hitch in the Army and move on to the next thing. He’s planted his flag in the southwest and I don’t imagine that will change. He’ll be a Region Guy in temperament if not in physical location. My youngest is working on a personal training certification and should have that wrapped up early in the year. He’s got some bodybuilding goals he’s working towards as well, and he’s learning how to pay his bills with a blue-collar gig. Mrs. Dull will continue to scout out potential Michigan beachtown houses for us to fantasize about buying. Big Story: We’ve got a big round-number anniversary this year, and we’re already plotting a way to sneak away for a weekend or so to celebrate. Michigan? Vegas? Chicago? We got options.
Me? I’m gonna keep trying to get better at teaching, keep sharing the classroom stuff I make with my geometry team, keep working on nutrition plans (got good feedback from my GP last visit so that’s good, right?), keep reading, keep building in time to move (those dogs aren’t going to walk themselves) and time to reflect. Oh, and drink more water.
And continue to test the far edges of my comfort zone with Teach Plus and Teacher Leader Bootcamp. Both have been an amazing experiences so far. I’m learning a ton about how the sausage gets made. And as one state rep told me: Advocacy matters. Your voice matters. Write the email, make the phone call, go to the town hall meeting, bring a friend/co-worker.
(And an aside for my Indiana teacher friends: yes, most definitely fill out the application for TLB or Teach Plus in 2023. You will not regret it.)
Denzel won an Oscar for that performance in the clip up at the top of this post, by the way. Folks pointed out that 99% of the time Denzel pretty much plays himself in movies, but in Training Day he stepped out of type to play a crude, amoral, manipulative, backstabbing, corrupt cop.
If Denzel can grow as an actor, I can grow as a teacher, and as a teacher leader. Introvert me was terrified the first time I got on a Zoom call with a legislator. But I did it. And it wasn’t horrible. Gotta keep working on that elevator speech for when I get a chance to meet policymakers face-to-face later this winter.
And oh, yeah: The 2023 playlist is here. Been making a “New Year’s Playlist” each year ever since stumbling across this Allyson Apsey blog post lo those many chilly Decembers ago.
(Prior years here: 2018 2019 2020 2021 2022)
Actually made it live in like May so I did defeat the purpose of a “New Year’s Playlist” a little bit. But it made for a good soundtrack to a drive back from a September weekend trip to Nashville, so there’s that.
As always it’s a mix of new stuff I was digging this year and some old favorites, obscure things that fell into my lap during the year, and tunes that kind of summed up the vibe. And I’ve already opened up the planning doc for what will become Teacherlife #2024Playlist sometime in the next 12 months.
As intensely online a person as I am, I feel like I do make time on a regular basis to unplug and reflect in solitude. One of the guys I’ve been benchmarking in that regard is Bugsy Sailor, who has photographed every Lake Superior sunrise for the last four years.
He sums up the payoff for him:
It’s worth sitting for a moment with the entire thread. The task of teaching and fulfilling my roles as husband and father aren’t likely to get easier in 2023. Like Bugsy says, the things we give our lives to simultaneously drain us and energize us. It’s that tension of day-to-day life that fuels some of the anticipation we have on New Year’s Eve, even when tomorrow feels a little like Just Another Day.
To a new year filled with surprises and blessings and sunsets.
Na zdrowie, and Happy 2023.